INVISIBLE CHAINS: OVERCOMING COERCIVE CONTROL IN YOUR INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP

Book ID/图书代码： 05535015B80006

English Summary/英文概要： When a man showers all of his attention on a woman, it can feel incredibly romantic, and can blind her to hints of problems ahead. But what happens when that attentiveness becomes domination? In some relationships, the desire to control leads to jealousy, threats, micromanaging--even physical violence. If you or someone you care about are trapped in a web of coercive control, this book provides answers, hope, and a way out. Lisa Aronson Fontes draws on both professional expertise and personal experience to help you:

*Recognize controlling behaviors of all kinds.
*Understand why this destructive pattern occurs.
*Determine whether you are in danger and if your partner can change.
*Protect yourself and your kids.
*Find the support and resources you need.
*Take action to improve or end your relationship.
*Regain your freedom and independence.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 情感操纵，又称为煤气灯操纵，也称为PUA，是情感虐待的一种方式。通常，操纵者会通过撒谎、隐瞒、挑拨、贬低、否认错误、转嫁责任等伎俩来扭曲你对现实的认知，实现情感操纵意图。被操纵者会逐渐自我怀疑和自我否认，并且感到自卑和无助。

情感操纵者可能是你的丈夫、妻子、父母、同事或朋友，他们可能是人格障碍患者。

◎表演型人格障碍者
◎自恋型人格障碍者
◎反社会型人格障碍者
◎边缘型人格障碍者

在本书中，萨尔基斯博士深入研究了这一隐藏的操纵方式，指出了情感操纵者出没的各种场合、他们的行为特点以及操纵的危害，并且将生活中的操纵行为进行了分析和解读，不仅可以帮助你确定自己是否是情感操纵的受害者，而且提供了摆脱和治愈伤痛的方法。 ◎亲密关系中的情感操纵以及如何摆脱
◎约会时的警报信号以及如何保护自己
◎如何在工作中免受情感操纵者的伤害
◎如何识别家庭中的情感操纵者并保护自己
◎如何辨别情感操纵的朋友，摆脱不健康的友谊(DB)

Awards/获奖情况："I wish I’d had this book in my youth, when I was the victim of coercion that whittled away at my self-esteem. This book should be in every women’s center, police station, and therapist’s office. It cuts through the jargon, gets to the heart of the matter, and provides tools of liberation."--Magdalena Gómez, author of Shameless Woman

"The first comprehensive guide to overcoming coercive control. Dr. Fontes provides simple tools to assess your own or a loved one’s relationship and offers practical steps to getting free, illustrated with real-life stories. The writing is sharp and evocative and the research is impeccable. A path-breaking work."--Evan Stark, PhD, MSW, Professor Emeritus, Rutgers University School of Public Affairs

"Dr. Fontes makes the dynamics of coercive control understandable to everyone. In plain language and with clear examples, she describes the tactics of domineering individuals and their effects on victims. Dr. Fontes is particularly thoughtful about including diverse couples and families. After reading this book, no one will be able to ask, ’Why does she stay?’"--Juan Carlos Areán, Director, National Latin@ Network for Healthy Families and Communities

"This book reveals hidden dimensions behind relationships where one partner is controlled by the other. Dr. Fontes explains the dynamics of coercive control and deciphers the pattern so we can all understand it. Read this book and reclaim your life."--Rabbi Efraim Eisen, marriage, family, and child therapist, Amherst, Massachusetts

"This book is gripping and nuanced. It will be extremely helpful to anyone grappling with issues of coercive control. As a therapist with decades of experience, and a person who has been in coercive relationships, I learned a great deal. The stories of women and men from wide-ranging backgrounds pulled me in deeply. Complex, profound ideas are expressed in easy-to-read language. A ’must-have’ resource!"--Janine Roberts, EdD, past president, American Family Therapy Academy

"Fontes’s writing is clear and vividly illustrated with real-life stories from her decades of work helping abuse victims become survivors. Invisible Chains is a hopeful book that shows a way out of coercive control relationships and illustrates the promise of healing and recovery."--Jeffrey L. Edleson, PhD, Dean and Professor, School of Social Welfare, University of California, Berkeley

"This powerful and informative resource delivers essential information in a nonjudgmental and sensitive manner. People who work in the legal and criminal justice systems need this book to help keep victims and their children safe. The book is easy to read, but in no way simplistic. I will be placing a copy of this book in our office library as a resource for our attorneys and advocates."--Ismael R. Ozanne, Dane County District Attorney, Madison, Wisconsin

About the Author/作者介绍： 斯蒂芬妮·莫尔顿·萨尔基斯（Stephanie Moulton Sarkis）佛罗里达大学心理健康咨询专业博士、教育学博士，畅销书作家和心理治疗师，擅长有关情感操纵的咨询治疗。美国心理健康咨询师协会临床心理健康专家，同时，她还是一名国家认证咨询师、注册心理健康咨询师，以及佛罗里达州最高法院认证的家庭巡回调解员。萨尔基斯博士是萨尔基斯研究所创始人，也是注意缺陷多动障碍、慢性疼痛、焦虑障碍方面的专家。

Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD, has a doctorate in counseling psychology and has worked in the areas of child abuse, violence against women, and challenging family issues for over 25 years. A professor, researcher, and popular conference speaker, she teaches at the University of Massachusetts Amherst. She survived a relationship that included coercive control and stalking.

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